We become Yes cultured people. Just imagine someone asks you to do something which you really don’t want to do, it might be your family member, friend, colleague, boss or somebody. But you feel like you will let the other person down if you say no. You feel GUILTY already, and you haven’t even responded yet! So you say yes. Only because you say yes the stress is generated in you and you will not be able to do the task comfortably. You feel embarrassed for your own situation by saying yes.
Why cannot you say ‘NO’ are you afraid of saying no? Or you feel that the other person feels bad will be hurt. Just because of this feeling we say yes and get into many major issues with our own life.
Many of the business problems get generated just because of the same reason and many of the relations are spoiled just because of the same feeling. It’s better to say NO at that moment and let the person feel anything at least in the long run the damages are less. When you feel you need to say no, be specific and explain why you are saying so. And try to make the person understand your point clear. The person may understand instantly or may understand later, but when you know you are saying the right thing tray and clear your views. This can really save you from getting into major problems and losses.
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