Can you build Trust…?

ID-100109098Building trust is the toughest task and time consuming job. It’s just same as “It takes much time and the best efforts to make a mud pot and a minute to break it”

We reflect many of attitudes and intentions in our actions, behaviors. Our actions becomes our habits, habits becomes our character. We start building trust in all our communications… We cannot cheat someone for many times, the other person will help us keeping trust on us, If we start misguiding, misbehaving or not keeping our commitments with him, he will loss of  trust in us. Slowly he will start keeping distance from us and start avoiding us. End result is that the trust is broken.

Keeping fare deal in everything we do, telling the truth to everyone will build help us to build trust in us, once you build trust people will help us to come out of problems, people will always think of giving solutions to our problems. They will help us to guide us to the right path and the direction towards the success.

Quotes about Trust…

“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche

“Trust starts with truth and ends with truth.” ― Santosh Kalwar

“Do not lose hope — what you seek will be found. Trust ghosts. Trust those that you have helped to help you in their turn. Trust dreams. Trust your heart, and trust your story. (from ‘Instructions’)” ― Neil Gaiman

“Loving someone is giving them the power to break your heart, but trusting them not to.” ― Julianne Moore

“In the end, you have to choose whether or not to trust someone.” ― Sophie Kinsella

“It was a mistake,” you said. But the cruel thing was, it felt like the mistake was mine, for trusting you.” ― David Levithan,

“A story is nothing but a lie. An illusion. And that illusion only works if we trust in it.” ― Eduardo Halfon

“Trust, but verify.”-Ronald Reagan

“Trust is like a mirror..once its BROKEN you can never look at it the same again…”

“Sometimes trusting a friend is the hardest thing to do. Even the closest friends can become your enemies”.

“Behind every untrusting girl is a boy who taught her to be that way…”

“It’s good to trust others but, not to do so is much better”.-Benito Mussolini

 

How can we be self motivated….?

ID-10048116Self motivation is required to keep yourself moving further towards your goals. There are obstacles, misfortunes, problems to face and so on…but all these reasons will count you to become depress or may be divert your focus from your goals.

There comes self motivation… we need to be self motivated and be ready to face the realities of the life. It may be hard, but if we learn to be self motivated, it will help us reach our goals sooner. Self motivation is a spirit to success. It’s the reason to win, it’s the reason to keep moving and it’s the reason for solutions. When we are self motivated we get ready to find out different ways and means to succeed in any of the activity. No reasons can depress us.

I want all the readers to list your views and comments which can make everyone motivated….

 Quotes:

“You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up the belief that you can’t have it.”–Robert Anthony

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.”–Dr. Forrest C. Shaklee

“Success…seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit.”–Conrad Hilton

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”–Eleanor Roosevelt

“Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently.”–Henry Ford

“Every great story on the planet happened when someone decided not to give up, but kept going no matter what.”–Spryte Loriano

“How does one become a butterfly? You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.”–Trina Paulus

 

How can we work with curious and joyful attitude?

Curious behavior can push us towards finding out the different solutions for the problems we are trying resolve. Curious attitude is something which we can see in the child. We can see a child looking at something and behaving in a very curious manner.

Every child is bundle of joy with lots of curiosity. A child can enjoy with everything it will hold in hand and watch on. Child will enjoy with small things of the world, it may be a stone, marble, stick, toy, instrument, water, bowl etc. whenever it holds on to something new, his eyes will shine and blink with joyful smile on the face. He will always try to enjoy on everything he gets. Day by day as he grows, he will start building the choices.

If we are able to work with the same joyfulness and start finding out solutions to the problems, hopefully we may get many solutions and we can come out of the problematic situations. When we start enjoying the moments of our life, we leave our mind free to think by which we can achieve anything. Many solutions are found when you are in joyful mood.  If we start our work to accomplish something with joy, definitely we will achieve it and also will have the satisfaction for the completion. Satisfaction cannot be measured in terms of money. It’s proud feeling about you. When you look back yourself you feel really achieved something in life. May be you had a tough time to accomplish or a hard journey to complete the task, but by the end of the result you feel satisfied.

“Whatever you think, you can achieve”.

“Everything is created twice in life; first it’s created in our mind and then physically”.

“What your mind can think, it can achieve”.

“Life is very precious; enjoy every moment of your life”.

What is Aggressiveness…?

“A silent ocean cannot cut the rocks; you can see that only the fast sea can cut the rocks”.

True saying…  You cannot just be cool and sit idle thinking of the bright future for yourself. One has to be aggressive to achieve his dreams.  Whatever may be the hardships you will have to face the reality and move forward to hit the goal. ‘

There might be uncontrollable situations, might be frightening days, might have met with many setbacks, but we can’t stop planning further.  We need to be more aggressive towards our aim, towards achieving it by all the means. We need to be ready to take every step required to fulfill and achieve it.

You can look at many of the sports men, they are very much aggressive. You get lot of inspirations just by looking at them. That is language of aggression. If you are with the right thinking and the right aggressiveness you will win the game. It’s the major spirit which will make you win.

Every failure is like the rock which is cut by the aggressive sea. Once you accomplish the success all your pains are forgotten. You will be the happiest person, you enjoy your success.

Quotes:

As a child, the family that I had and the love I had from my two parents allowed me to go ahead and be more aggressive, to search and to take risks knowing that, if I failed, I could always come home to a family of love and support”.-Tiger Woods

Most of the people I know in show business don’t need anybody pushing them at all. They’re extremely aggressive”.-Helen Reddy

I think my career would probably be in a better place had I been more aggressive. But I don’t have it in me. I’m not a competitive person, and I’m also really private”.-Debi Mazar

What is Winning attitude?

“Winners never quit”.

When we plan to succeed at something, there might be failures while working to achieve the goals. But if we quit, we may stop building a big dream. Everyone wants to build something remarkable in the market today. Based on the dream you plan the path. Along the way you can meet mentors, guides, experts or somebody who is already achieved your dream. They all can support you to build whatever you want.

Winning is a real attitude which will make you fly, every empire is built with hard efforts of someone who really dared to dream big. Who took the first step towards taking the risk of growing to the higher level.

Many times we don’t have experience when we start as new project or something like new business. All the failures we face will teach us big lessons, which will become our stepping stones of success. Along the way, we learn to keep patience, fight the hardships, facing the rejections, understanding people, choosing the right path etc.

Even with all the odds we need to push ourselves towards the goal, keep putting best of your efforts to achieve what is decided. At the end surely you will WIN.

Quotes:

“It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult task which, more than anything else, will affect it’s successful outcome.”~ William James

“Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game one foot from a winning touchdown”.-Ross Perot

“Winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.” -Vince Lombardi
“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength”.-Arnold Schwarzenegger

“When you are winning a war almost everything that happens can be claimed to be right and wise”.-Winston Churchill

“Winning is habit. Unfortunately, so is losing”.-Vince Lombardi

 

Journey of Life….

“Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it.” –   Greg Anderson

The success is not enjoyed at the end of the journey, it’s the path we enjoy while succeeding on something. It is basically not about where we stand today, it’s about in which direction we are moving. Many times we think of our mistakes and misfortunes for not achieving something, but we need to think about in which direction we are working at. Everyone’s goals are not same; each person has got different goals and wishes. We need not compare ourselves with others while working and achieving our goals. Everyone’s journey in life is different.

We need to plan our journey of life. We can plan and achieve what we want in life, it is our own life and we are the creators of our tomorrow. The actions we take today will shape up our future. Today we may be in whatever situation; it is result of yesterday’s actions. If we want to have the different tomorrow we need to change our today’s actions.

Quotes for journey of life :

“Life is pure adventure, and the sooner we realize that, the sooner we will be able to treat life as art.” -Maya Angelou

“I believe that life is a journey, often difficult and sometimes incredibly cruel, but we are well equipped for it if only we tap into our talents and gifts and allow them to blossom”. -Les Brown

“There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth…not going all the way, and not starting”. –Buddha

“Man improves himself as he follows his path; if he stands still, waiting to improve before he makes a decision, he’ll never move”. -Paulo Coelho

“The journey between what you once were and who you are now becoming is where the dance of life really takes place”.-Barbara DeAngelis

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail”. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

 

 

Understanding your responsibility

When a person is given with a position or hired at some level in any workplace, it’s expected that he will take responsibility to complete the work and help the team to move forward to achieve the required result and hit the desired targets. While working with the teams you are suppose to maintain the work ethics along with social responsibility to maintain a right relationship with the co-workers.

Every time you cannot expect your superiors to monitor your work and efforts on the daily basis or you should not expect superiors to give you instructions for each step. You need to be a solution not a problem. Nobody likes a person asking for solutions for each and every situation. You are in the team to give a solution and help to move further towards the target of achieving the result. When you start taking responsibility on your own automatically you start getting desired results, team members start respecting you as a leader.

Those who are looking to grow within a company may want to look at their approach to their work responsibility. In many instances, superiors are not only looking to see if a person does his job, but they also consider how he does job. Start taking ownership of your actions that will convert you to be responsible for the right results.

How can we stop struggling?

Every person has got different problems; it may be health, money, relationship, carrier, emotional etc. Based on the problems each one is struggling to settle the situations and wants to have control on it, so that he can live in comfort zone. Everyone is trying to find out solutions to their problems. How can we stop struggling? How can we live comfort?

Here are some points listed out to ease the situations…

1)      Instead of complaining about the situation we can start finding out the alternative solutions.

2)      One should stop thinking as routine and start working on the possibilities.

3)      Should think of anticipating the forthcoming problems.

4)      Try to explore the maximum possibilities to convert the situation into your comfort zone.

5)      Try and have the control on the situations on which you can decide and act immediately.

6)      Stop thinking on the situations which are not in your control.

7)      List out your strengths and weaknesses, and start focusing on your strengths to grow in the right direction.

8)      Try to work/build in relation with your strengths. You have got more chances of success when you work with your strengths.

9)      Be cautious /alert and see that you will not repeat any of your mistakes.

10)   Try and learn from other’s mistakes.

11)   Focus on converting all the possibilities in to your success.

Inspirational Quotes for struggle:

“The struggle alone pleases us, not the victory.” – Blaise Pascal

“Opportunity follows struggle. It follows effort. It follows hard work. It doesn’t come before.” – Shelby Steele

“Need and struggle are what excite and inspire us.” – William James

“Whatever the struggle, continue the climb. It may be only one step to the summit.” -Diane Westlake

“Struggle is the food from which change is made, and the best time to make the most of a struggle is when it’s right in front of your face.”

“Our duty is to encourage every one in his struggle to live up to his own highest idea, and strive at the same time to make the ideal as near as possible to the Truth.” –Swami Vivekananda

“If there is no struggle, there is no progress.”-Frederick Douglass

“Where there is no struggle, there is no strength.” –Oprah Winfrey

“A constant struggle, a ceaseless battle to bring success from inhospitable surroundings, is the price of all great achievements.” – Orison Swett Marden

 

 

Chanakya Neeti – A man attains greatness by his merits.

Chanakya Says “A man attains greatness by his merits, not simply by occupying an exalted seat. Can we call a crow an eagle (garuda) simply because he sits on the top of a tall building”.

You can achieve success only by your knowledge and your hard work; you cannot feel the success just because you got the position to be on the top. By some chance if you have reached a top position, it is really difficult task to maintain the position without having knowledge and the experience to move forward or succeed in the required direction.

When you are not able to take the right decisions at the required positions you start feeling the difficulties of the position at the same time others will start noticing that you are not the right person to be at that position or authority level. People start ignoring you for your doings and the suggestions given by you.

If you have the required experience and then you occupy the position, you will work and take decisions in confidence, and all your actions are recognized and respected by others. You start creating goodwill and a real respect for yourself and your position. Everybody will be proud to have you as a leader at that level.

The best way is to acquire the required knowledge base and then climb on to the position.

 

 

Don’t say YES when you want to say NO!!

We become Yes cultured people. Just imagine someone asks you to do something which you really don’t want to do, it might be your family member, friend, colleague, boss or somebody. But you feel like you will let the other person down if you say no. You feel GUILTY already, and you haven’t even responded yet! So you say yes.  Only because you say yes the stress is generated in you and you will not be able to do the task comfortably. You feel embarrassed for your own situation by saying yes.

Why cannot you say ‘NO’ are you afraid of saying no? Or you feel that the other person feels bad will be hurt. Just because of this feeling we say yes and get into many major issues with our own life.

Many of the business problems get generated just because of the same reason and many of the relations are spoiled just because of the same feeling. It’s better to say NO at that moment and let the person feel anything at least in the long run the damages are less.  When you feel you need to say no, be specific and explain why you are saying so. And try to make the person understand your point clear. The person may understand instantly or may understand later, but when you know you are saying the right thing tray and clear your views. This can really save you from getting into major problems and losses.

Do reply with your views which can help us to understand the readers….

Regards…

Krishnna Tickare