Can you build Trust…?

ID-100109098Building trust is the toughest task and time consuming job. It’s just same as “It takes much time and the best efforts to make a mud pot and a minute to break it”

We reflect many of attitudes and intentions in our actions, behaviors. Our actions becomes our habits, habits becomes our character. We start building trust in all our communications… We cannot cheat someone for many times, the other person will help us keeping trust on us, If we start misguiding, misbehaving or not keeping our commitments with him, he will loss of  trust in us. Slowly he will start keeping distance from us and start avoiding us. End result is that the trust is broken.

Keeping fare deal in everything we do, telling the truth to everyone will build help us to build trust in us, once you build trust people will help us to come out of problems, people will always think of giving solutions to our problems. They will help us to guide us to the right path and the direction towards the success.

Quotes about Trust…

“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche

“Trust starts with truth and ends with truth.” ― Santosh Kalwar

“Do not lose hope — what you seek will be found. Trust ghosts. Trust those that you have helped to help you in their turn. Trust dreams. Trust your heart, and trust your story. (from ‘Instructions’)” ― Neil Gaiman

“Loving someone is giving them the power to break your heart, but trusting them not to.” ― Julianne Moore

“In the end, you have to choose whether or not to trust someone.” ― Sophie Kinsella

“It was a mistake,” you said. But the cruel thing was, it felt like the mistake was mine, for trusting you.” ― David Levithan,

“A story is nothing but a lie. An illusion. And that illusion only works if we trust in it.” ― Eduardo Halfon

“Trust, but verify.”-Ronald Reagan

“Trust is like a mirror..once its BROKEN you can never look at it the same again…”

“Sometimes trusting a friend is the hardest thing to do. Even the closest friends can become your enemies”.

“Behind every untrusting girl is a boy who taught her to be that way…”

“It’s good to trust others but, not to do so is much better”.-Benito Mussolini

 

Journey of Life….

“Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it.” –   Greg Anderson

The success is not enjoyed at the end of the journey, it’s the path we enjoy while succeeding on something. It is basically not about where we stand today, it’s about in which direction we are moving. Many times we think of our mistakes and misfortunes for not achieving something, but we need to think about in which direction we are working at. Everyone’s goals are not same; each person has got different goals and wishes. We need not compare ourselves with others while working and achieving our goals. Everyone’s journey in life is different.

We need to plan our journey of life. We can plan and achieve what we want in life, it is our own life and we are the creators of our tomorrow. The actions we take today will shape up our future. Today we may be in whatever situation; it is result of yesterday’s actions. If we want to have the different tomorrow we need to change our today’s actions.

Quotes for journey of life :

“Life is pure adventure, and the sooner we realize that, the sooner we will be able to treat life as art.” -Maya Angelou

“I believe that life is a journey, often difficult and sometimes incredibly cruel, but we are well equipped for it if only we tap into our talents and gifts and allow them to blossom”. -Les Brown

“There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth…not going all the way, and not starting”. –Buddha

“Man improves himself as he follows his path; if he stands still, waiting to improve before he makes a decision, he’ll never move”. -Paulo Coelho

“The journey between what you once were and who you are now becoming is where the dance of life really takes place”.-Barbara DeAngelis

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail”. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

 

 

Chanakya Neeti – A man attains greatness by his merits.

Chanakya Says “A man attains greatness by his merits, not simply by occupying an exalted seat. Can we call a crow an eagle (garuda) simply because he sits on the top of a tall building”.

You can achieve success only by your knowledge and your hard work; you cannot feel the success just because you got the position to be on the top. By some chance if you have reached a top position, it is really difficult task to maintain the position without having knowledge and the experience to move forward or succeed in the required direction.

When you are not able to take the right decisions at the required positions you start feeling the difficulties of the position at the same time others will start noticing that you are not the right person to be at that position or authority level. People start ignoring you for your doings and the suggestions given by you.

If you have the required experience and then you occupy the position, you will work and take decisions in confidence, and all your actions are recognized and respected by others. You start creating goodwill and a real respect for yourself and your position. Everybody will be proud to have you as a leader at that level.

The best way is to acquire the required knowledge base and then climb on to the position.

 

 

Responsibility Quotes –

* “Until you accept responsibility for your life, someone else runs your life.” ― Orrin Woodward
* “The price of greatness is responsibility.” ― Winston Churchill
* “You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.” ― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry,
* “Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so.” ― Noam Chomsky
* “If you hang out with chickens, you’re going to cluck and if you hang out with eagles, you’re going to fly.” ― Steve Maraboli,
* “The right thing to do and the hard thing to do are usually the same.” ― Steve Maraboli,
* “Never compromise your values.” ― Steve Maraboli,
* “It is wrong and immoral to seek to escape the consequences of one’s acts.” ― Mahatma Gandhi
* “Man is nothing else but what he makes of himself.” ― Jean-Paul Sartre
* “What is an anarchist? One who,choosing, accepts the responsibility of choice.” ― Ursula K. Le Guin
* “No man can choose to serve only himself when he has something to offer his state. No one can put his own wishes above the needs of so many.” ― Megan Whalen Turner
* “Work on yourself first, take responsibility for your own progress”. -I Ching
* “Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame”. -Erica Jong